One reason we go crazy is that we’re taught to be of one mind. I mean, don’t we always have multiple reactions? Self-interest says, Darn, I’m disappointed, I wanted that job. Some higher side, your heart says, I’m happy that my friend got it. Everything is a mixed blessing, someone said. I think it was Gay Talese. Life’s full of paradoxes. Why fight it? Negative capability. This way lies creativity.